My friend, I think that it's about culture, because it's not explained, that a family member plays a trick on us, and we forgive him and we remain a family. As a couple it is very difficult, if we make a mistake they judge us and condemn us because I have lived this love but it is very difficult, the worst is not being alone. What a dilemma, very good writing. I hope you keep writing about the subject you always learn from other people, greetings