10 things that can save your relationship or marriage

I recently received an invitation to write for a magazine in Serbia. This will be one of my first tasks.

1 . Never stop courting a woman.

• Never accept it as something that is implied. When you offered her a marriage, you promised to be a man who would always be able to protect her heart. This is the most important and sacred treasure that has ever been entrusted to you. She chose you. Do not forget to remember that love does not suffer from laziness.
  2 . Try to always see only the best.
• Focus on what you love with your wife. What we focus on our attention has the ability to grow. And if you concentrate on mistakes, you will see errors everywhere. If you focus your attention on something you like, for a while you will realize that you are married to the most beautiful woman in the world.
  3 . Do not try to change her.
  It is your job to love a woman as she is, without hope and expectation. And if she still changes, you still love her, whether she likes you or not.
  4 . Preuzmite odgovornost za sopstvene emocije.
• Vaša žena nije obavezna da vas čini srećnim, isto kao što ne može ni da vas učini nesrećnim. Vi ste odgovorni za svoje pozitivno stanje, i tada će ta ista radost da prodre u vaš odnos. Ako ste nervozni i ljuti, nikada za to ne krivite svoju ženu. To je nešto što se dešava unutar vas, to su vaše emocije i vaša odgovornost.
  5 . Allow your wife to simply exist.
• When it's nervous, do not try to correct it. Your job is to simply hug her and let her know that this is normal. Let her know that she feels like her, that she means a lot to you and that you are the one she can always relinquish. Women's nature is changeable and fluffy, emotions are like a storm, they are getting stronger and then dying. If during the storm you remain strong and unwavering, she will be able to trust you.
  6 . Give your wife space.
• Women's dedication can be aroused. But sometimes they need to be aware that taking care of yourself is not a bad thing. Sometimes they need to fly off your branches to find out what will give them strength. And if you give them such freedom, they will come back to sing your new songs.
  7 . Do not be afraid to look stupid.
  Do not look at yourself too seriously. Smile. And you make your wife laugh. Laughter makes it easy for every situation.
  8 . Make it feel like a queen.
• Learn all possible languages ​​of love together. Ask her to make a list of 10 things that will help her feel loved and desirable.
  9 . Learn to forgive.
  Concentrate on the future, not on the past. Do not let your past hold you in captivity. Errors from the past, irrelevant to your, your own or your wife, look like a hard anchor that does not allow any movement forward. Prayers - it's freedom.
  10 . Always choose love.
• Always choose love. Always choose love. After all, it's the only advice you really need. If love is the principle governing you, on which all your decisions are based, then your marriage will not pose a threat to anything. Love always wins!
  I hope u like it. Thank you for reading.
  @blackofsky