Guys, can we talk?

A girl doesn't like you and you decide to irritate her further by taking your lips close to hers in a dramatic act to make her even more uncomfortable...

Hmmm!!!

You may not get your judgement then in the form of a slap or a kick. But you might when you are probably called to a top ministerial appointment in the country or to a position with even more notoriety.

You will have to explain how much trauma you caused her...how her life has been unspeakably altered by your behavioral indiscretion...how she had to battle through psychology sessions because she was face to face with the possibility of being kissed by you--an act she had sworn would only happen in marriage...

This will be in front of an audience of quizzing eyes who have been inspired by the great things you've done with your life after that incident. Unfortunately, they will be less forgiving when they realize you have been flawed before they knew you.

What you do even as a drunk 17 year old is a weighty as though you are a 27 year old teetotaller, don't be surprised. And as long as it is "sexually inclined" involving a girl, she will be believed, these days, before you say your first sentence in defense.

In advanced democracies where Dr Ford and Brett Kavanaugh are grinding out these times, the world watches with emotions on its sleeves how, not just where justice will swing.

That scenario will soon be conceivable in our country too.

Till then, start thinking hard about 'questionable' encounters with you've had with your lady friends before now. Make peace with them if possible. I mean, perfect peace!

In a world already inflamed with a virulent tendency to have a showdown in the wake of one's success, be careful what you do even in your irresponsible moments.

Some of these ladies can violently 'shake the table' you want to eat from. Brett Kavanaugh, U.S. Supreme Court Nominee,understands best.!