Why do Men Oscillate from Passionate Lovers to Indifferent ?

Hi, Steemians!

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If a man could buy a switch that let us turn it on whenever we need them, they would. Trouble is, that switch doesn't exist. Most of the time, Men have no control over their mood swings. They can't always condition their mental or emotional state to jibe with us women. and they don't expect us to fake it or put on a show. that's not happening. Rest assured, however, that it is almost always just a harmless case of men being men or men being naturally different from women.

Still, not all cases of their emotional vacillation are innocent. Sometimes, their going from hot one day to cold the next, could be a sign of a deeper complication.

Here are the Four most Common Causes of their Temperamental Change.

(this is based on my personal experience of having a 10 years relationship before, maybe your's are different. )

We are just after the Chase.

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• They will make you feel like you're the only woman alive when they pursuing you. They will text you every minute, call you every hour, pick you up every day. They will drive up to Baguio to get your favorite strawberry jam. They even read Twilight books just so they can mouth off Edward Cullen lines. They will even stop smoking if you told them so.

• And then we women reciprocate and give ourselves to them.Game over. Done! KAPUT. They step back once they get you. Turns out they were only attracted to us when we were still unattainable. It wasn't love in the first place, it was just mere curiosity. Men guilty of this are usually referred to Players.

We have Commitment Issues.

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• As corny as it sounds, there are times when they run into us when they are already damaged inside. They just came from a painful breakup. They got cheated on, or they just got out of an abusive relationship. Things that make them subconsciously afraid to give themselves wholly to us. A part of them wants to be totally devoted to us, but another part always puts up a defense mechanism.

They recoil and there are oftentimes not even aware of it. Just when they have become too attached to us. and they are called Guys with Excess baggage.

We are too Distracted or Preoccupied.

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• They love us to death. but they are also in love with their job. They were very Career - Oriented. and while they constantly profess that we are the center of their universe, the reality is that their very existence revolves around their office cubicle. They want to surprise us with a fancy dinner every now and then, but if a last-minute conference call gets in their way, they won't think twice about getting you a takeout food instead.

• If their mind seems to be flying elsewhere while cuddling with us, it's because of their deadlines and sale quotas. at least they are not cheating on us. They are just called Workaholics

We have been Unfaithful.

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• There are times that they grow cold for no apparent reason simply because they feel guilty. Its because they are aware they have wronged us. and they happen to suck at pretending that nothing happened. Something did happen, and its sapping them of romance. Whether the infidelity is over or still in progress, it's keeping them from making love to us with the kind of ardor only a blameless soul is capable of delivering. they are called Assholes and there are many of them running around out there.

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@thefairlady

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