Hey Terry, I think every one had such situation of feeling helpless at that moment the life was looking unfair, and the question: why me? or why my family member? This is the moment when the one needs a support, for the people around it is important to be able to identify that the one needs help, even just to be there. That was a good reminder that you have captured on your photograph. I don't know if I would be doing the same, probably not, because every time it reopens the old wound.