Thank you @plushzilla. Yes, that was my thought in using reallife as a tag but at the same time it will not get anywhere if people do not see it. Also I am just starting to put my thoughts and ideas into words for others to see. I have talked about it with others but it is different in writing about it. So once I get into a grove with my writing and get a following I will start using a tag that will people can go and see only posts based on this concept.