Opposition 1,2

pamoja550 (45)in #blog • 5 years ago

Hello

We should get used to the idea of not being loved, liked, praised even appreciated by all people. Its too dangerous to have yourself believing that all people should like you or love you. Because people liking or loving you does not always depend on what you do. Sometimes its about people themselves, each individual as an angle of love or hate towards you.

They may choose to use a lot of other excuses to cover the real source of their hatred but is not always the same.

The other problem about this people is they will try to convince other people to share their hatred towards you. And that is the time you will be given all bad names, as the saying goes "if you want to kill a dog give it a bad name " all this experience is painful but understandable and bearable.

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But there's one more thing that is hard to receive but we should also come to accept it as also a reality in this life. It goes together with the one I have mentioned above. And that is, if should get used with Opposition and not being liked by all people not matter how good you are. Because people may love you for their own reasons and may do the same in hating you. On top of that we should now that we cannot who that person should be or who those people who oppose or hate us should be. And that is what bring pain, more than the opposition itself.

It may be. A relative, a neighbor, classmate, workmate, your boss, your in-laws, it can be any one and as we all know most of the time opposition comes from the people, you can't even imaging that they would go down that road. The people who you may think they know you better to support you, turn out to be the fierce opposer's.

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So get you used that anybody can be a fierce and sworn foe. You can't choose who should be and shouldn't. It is a painful truth, a very bitter pill to swallow but spare yourself heartache take it. And keep on living if it happens to you.