Which should be done when the child falls

Good night all stemian friends, this time I want to share dwngan you. When our child is young and learning the way not infrequently they accidentally hit a chair or table. Then they cry. Generally, what the parents do to stop the crying child is to hit a chair or table that they accidentally hit. While saying, "Who's the naughty huh? It's already Papa / Mama at the chair / desk ... already cup ... .cup ... diem ya .. Finally the child was silent.

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When the process of beatings of the objects they are inflicting occurs, we have actually taught our children that he was never guilty.

The wrong person or other object. This thought will continue to carry on until he grows up. As a result, whenever he experiences an event and a mistake occurs, the wrong or wrong is someone else, and he is always right. The further consequences, which are worthy of warning of sanctions, or punishment are others who have not made a mistake or mistake.

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We as parents just realize it when the child has started to fight against us. This fighting behavior awakens since childhood because we have unwittingly taught never to feel guilty.

Then, what should we do when the new kid walks into something that makes him cry? What we should do is teach him to take responsibility for what happened; say to him (while rubbing the part that he thinks hurts): "Honey, you hit ya. Pain huh? Next time be careful, just walk slowly so as not to hit again. "