Mom and Dad
Three weeks into the road trip I realize fully why I am here. My mother passed away three years ago. My kids are grown, and my hair has turned as white as snow. I have never before come face to face with my own mortality like this, and I'm struggling to find something meaningful to say.
A trip to the cemetery to visit Mom.
My father turns ninety next month.
It's been a difficult and emotional trip. The fires and smoke, my own illness... nothing has gone the way I expected, and I have done very little photography along the way. I'm searching today to find something to show you.
Sunrise in Wasaga Beach, Ontario.
My wonderful wife Cathy, and our daughter Jenny.
The Humber River, where I used to play as a child.
There have been some good times along the way, it's not all sadness and grief. Here's a rare shot of yours truly posing in front of a "hedge" at my friend's house.
I have spent very little time online while travelling. My family and friends are more important to me.
Tomorrow morning we begin the long trip home. We still have a couple of friends and family members to see, and our first stop will be back at the beach...
...then perhaps back to the cottage. By the weekend we will start the 4,000 km trip home.
I hope everyone is doing well. I'll be in touch soon!
Thanks very much @pixresteemer!
Sorry to hear you have been ill. Get well soon. Do have a safe trip home.
Sorry to hear you
Have been ill. Get well soon. Do
Have a safe trip home.
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Thanks very much, we're loading up the car again! I hope to be back online in a day or two :)
I'm so happy to hear that @keithboone.
I've been in a similar position this year and know exactly what you mean.
Your dad looks amazing at 89 so maybe your mortality thoughts are a little premature! 😁
Glad you're going back to the beach. It looks wonderful.
I hope you have a more relaxing trip home than you had getting there.
Safe travels! 💙
Thank you Gillian, it will be good to be back on the road in a few hours.
@keithboone Its the hard reality that nobody is permanent in this world.Hope you had wonderful trip.keep sharing.
Thank you - yes, that is a very hard reality!
Lovely photos. Sounds like a fulfilling journey, if rather melancholy. I’m sorry you’ve been unwell and hope your fast recovering.
Thank you very much.
wow 90!? what's his secret?
Just water and clean living... apparently :)
Thanks for sharing lovely photos of your family. My first thought was how wonderful to still have your Dad. I hope your trip back will give you more time for your excellent photography and let the beauty you see lift your spirits. Keep well dear Keith. 😊 🤗
It is very wonderful to still have Dad. I wish we didn't live so far away. Ontario is where my relatives and many old friends live, but I still love Vancouver Island. Thank you :)
Travel is the best medicine
Yes, that's very true.
It is great to hear from you @keithboone and even though things have not gone as expected, it is good to know that this trip has given you quality time with the people who mean the world to you.
That is a very beautiful photo of Cathy and Jenny isn't it? They are so much alike. I really like the words on your parents grave stones because I truly believe them. I hope your drive home will be enjoyable and as relaxed as possible. (U & R )
Thank you, Trudee! We did have a lovely time with friends and family. I'll be glad to be home.
Well worth the trip, I'm sure Keith and I do hope you are feeling a lot better.
They are moments in life when is time to pause and revalue our past and the future. It can be sad or even scarry and always very emotional. Nevertheless, it is always easier for people who are surrounded by loving family and friends. You are fortunate to have them Keith and that is the most important gift one can have. Sending lots of hugs 💚😊💚