When it comes to first-timers in the arena of "bedminton" (my coinage), there is always this fear of the unknown. It doesn't matter whether it is the man or the woman, at times, something out of place is a common factor.

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Do you know that is not necessarily painful for the woman who is doing it for the first time? Experts say the only difference is that the hymen (a thin, fleshy tissue that's located at the opening of the vagina) can be torn and that's that.

The blood which usually comes out when the penis gains entry into the vagina is simply because the membrane (hymen) does not have nerves and therefore is tender.

The famous pain for first-timers is therefore produced by fear which makes the muscles of the vagina contracts at the point of closer action. It is of no consequence whether the man gained entry by force or was skillfully gentle, as long as an entertained fear exists, then, Vaginal contraction often occurs, which gives birth to imaginary pain.

These assertions are not absolute. When, where, and how it occurs matters a lot, for there are brute men as well as crude women. Remember, be gentle.

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This content was first published on Uptrennd by me.

Sincerely, @izge.