Friendship or Love?

hendrik.kwok (45)in #blog • 7 years ago

Friends and spouses are two people who must have an important role in your life. If friends are present and grow up with you, couples come to fulfill you. It is impossible to choose one of the two. After all, it is their presence that makes you complete as a human being. But when the two are no longer there, which one makes you more miserable?

A friend is a faithful one present on the side. Without the need for blood ties, he is the family of your choice.

*“Good friends are hard to find, harder to live, and impossible to forget.”*

Life would not be complete without the presence of friends. Someone who is faithful to your side in trouble and pleasure, where you share your grief and ask for support. With him, you have never been awkward to tell stories about crazy things, even the dreams you expect to be real. With him also, you feel no need to calculate profit and loss. All that belongs to the taste-it feels like to share with him who you love. Not only about matter, time and attention as much as possible always you give to him who deserve to be a true friend.

1. But like a human, you also want to feel love. When it's time, there will come someone who can make you fall crazy.

In the course of your life, there are times when you will feel in love. Find someone who feels-it feels perfect in your eyes. Everything in him makes you interested. You fall in love, even spelled infatuated. With him, you also feel happy. Almost the same as a best friend, he is your place partner of many things.
His accompaniment makes you feel how luxurious a feeling of belonging and being loved. He is one of the greatest sources of your happiness to fight for.

2. You certainly do not want to lose friends and spouses. Both have an important role in your life, and worth fighting for it.

Lucky if you have both, loving companions and loving spouses. Unfortunately, each tangle must have its own difficulties. Friendship may be cracked because of misunderstanding. Your love relationship can also run aground when incompatibility is no longer offset by compromise.
In fact, these two braids can also be lame. When you are too busy with friends, your partner feels neglected. However, when you are too engrossed with a partner, your friend feels removed. Yes, there are times when you have to be in a difficult position.

3. Relationships of love and friendship both involve feelings. Losing one or both must have been painfully painful.

If you measure the pain, both must have almost the same level. Without friends, your life must be incomplete. Without a partner, your days would not be as happy as usual. Like there is a missing part when you are no longer accompanied by a friend or spouse. Like there is a tremendous loss of pain. In fact, the affection of friends or the love of the couple is not something that is stagnant. All of these feelings may change for some reason. And when there is no exact science that can explain it, why should you rely on your life?

4. At the end of the day you will glow understand. Sometimes, the best option is to be friendly and love yourself.

The need to live side by side often makes you forget that the very essence of life is to be at peace with yourself. You need a friend who is ready to be present at your side, but that does not mean your life stops without it.
You also want a partner to be your life partner, but not yet met with him does not mean your life should end up sad. And at the end of the day, you will realize. Life will be easier when you are able to make peace with yourself. When you have enough of everything in yourself. You will need them, but then again, without them the world will be all right.