Yep, it is up to us and the sooner everybody realizes it the better is for them. :)

You are right on the money with this one:

" I'm not saying that you shouldn't get hurt or sorts, you will feel sad at times but it's up to you if embrace the feeling or just let it go and be happy.

Bad things are going to happen sometimes, but it is up to you to not let them feel bad in the future. You can let it go or keep inside you. I choose to let go and enjoy what is right in front of me. :)