Why traditional Chinese girls don’t date black guys?

in #blasian7 years ago

Me, as a Chinese girl, born and raised in China, but I don’t consider myself a traditional one. I am an YouTuber, posted many videos talking about interracial datings and my own dating experiences with black men.
I have been dating black men since 2012, and many of my friends from China were surprised and questioned me why I would date a black man. Most of them were negative. I have been always wondering why these traditional girls can’t accept black men, but I found them more attractive than any other races.
I did few interviews on some of my Chinese girl friends. Here are the few reasons why they never dated a black man:

  1. The family pressure. Their parents wouldn’t accept black men due to the social stereotypes, such as black people are lazy and violent.
  2. These traditional Chinese girls think that they can’t handle a black man. (Sexual wise) They think that black men are too big and strong for them.
  3. The appearance differences, such as the skin complexion and body shapes (muscly).
  4. The culture differences. Many traditional Chinese girls don’t understand black culture, such as hip hop, the dance and the black history.
    I have had issues with the black men I dated, but I never defined them as same. I actually like men from all races. The reason I dated black men the most is because they are the more aggressive type. I don’t chase guys so aggressive guys do get my attentions more. It’s not like people always say “once go black, never go back”. It’s all about the personalities. :)
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