WELCOME TO MARRIAGE
This is me, I am marriage. You just got married doesn't mean all is going to be well, that's why you hear for better and for worse.
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The difficult part of marriage for most people are the first month and couple of years, so much rush, few misunderstandings with the husband, for some lack of experience, child bearing and also.
Marriages are made or destroyed by how we handle the initial pressure as new couples, so much expectations from both parents, friends and family. Smart couples will expect that early days of marriage will have little pot holes on the way. So you must decide how to go slow so the pot holes will not lead to an accident. Trusting your partner and keeping faith on each other will help go through those early stage pressures.
Grow together, sometimes you'll cry and wonder if you married the right person because the understanding might not be there at that early stage but don't cry, it will all balance up in matter of time. Pray and ask God for wisdom and then seek Godly advice.
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Many young couples when in problems run to their friends most of which are still single, what do you want to learn from such person, instead of running to the pastor or even your mother to seek good council. Do not be the kind of family that uses what happens in the internet to solve your problems. Many have caused broken homes
First 1-3 years in marriages are mainly foundational laying. At this stage you need to pray for your partner always. Never allow regret come into your heart for a bit if not it might never go away and reduce your ability to play your role perfectly in building a better home.
This marriage you envy everyday were built from scratch by 2 persons who struggled like most are struggling today and they finally overcame.
Never give up on your spouse if you do, the journey of success will be more longer than usual.
Don't complain. Welcome to marriage where two adult in marriage will have to learn to be two adult in Union.
Choose not be be surprised by everything but learn to understand from those things that are meant to surprise you
The Early years are foundation, if the foundation is not strong, whatever built on it will collapse.
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Often people who get married don't make prenuptial agreements, although I think this is very important. In addition, even if people just live together, but are not officially scheduled, I advise you to think about Cohabitation Agreement. This is an easy way to avoid conflicts and misunderstandings in a life together.