I see your view on this and it deserves full respect from me dear @bliss11. You talked from your heart and that’s what I value the most on people.
You’re very right , time is very volatile and we must spend it wisely with those deserving. Memories are mixed in a pool of our thoughts and experiences while others also put their ingredients to the final scene, not always as idyllic as we wanted maybe.
Big hugs and best wishes over there ❤️