having children ...
...is terrifying!
They didn't CHOOSE to be born. You CHOSE to have them.
So all they become - good or bad - like it or not, is on you.
And that's not all.
At a certain point, you'll LOSE CONTROL.
Yet..... they're still Your Responsibility.
...well, except in death. Their death!
At least then, all the fear is over.
No more worrying. No more anxiety. No responsibility.
... they're gone. You failed!