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RE: Miss 1, how much time should one waste energy on worrying about something you can’t possibly change!
The loss of your dreams for it child's future can be very devastating and I think it's good to grieve that loss so that we don't get stuck on the "what if".. Though I still get stuck on that at times! So I think the two co-exist.. We lose and we gain at the same time, and whatever we feel about it is whatever we feel. :)
Very true, they do kind of exist together, it’s almost impossible to stop the thoughts popping into your head despite your best efforts.