Poor you lol!
I understand what you mean and I understand your husband.
It is only recently that I have discovered that I have a joy for writing and I think that is what has made the difference.
I became very ill about 2 years ago with a deadly virus and was flown to hospital by helicopter and not expected to live. I had a painful month in hospital and 8 hard months building myself up again. The virus had attacked my muscles and I could not even lift a book. To take my mind of things I began writing on my laptop and I havent stopped since.
I find it helps to share thoughts. Im far less stressed and much more open these days.
Thanks for getting back.