I tend to think that the more we internalize our interconnectiveness, the more selflish interests become a moot point, not even worth mentioning. I’m actually ok with handouts but only when the community can afford them.

I’m actually ok with handouts when the community or individual can afford them, but It’s certainly more meaningful to teach someone to fish than giving them a few fish. This is why I’m very hesitant to give my money to charities unless they are small scale and I know exactly what they aren’t doing.