The narcissistic personality type person is probably one of the most difficult people to deal with. You pegged it correct. No remorse, no sense of compassion for any one else's feelings. They move from relationship to relationship getting their 'supply' of whatever it is they need at the time. They morph into whatever they need to be, wherever they are, to get their supply (hence the ability to sound like an anarchist). They are masters of the guilt trip & silent treatment. When they have 'used up' the supply, they move on. I am sorry you had to go through this.
Thanks for the support, it was an experience I'm not interested in repeating again.
seems like anarchists favourite activity on the internet is telling other people that they are not anarchists. the more i see of anarchists on the internet the more i despair for the whole thing. especially the american versions - which just seem to be mentally ill violent people who are more interested in dressing like an anarchist and telling other people they arent good enough. oh yes and lets not forget getting on your high horse to tell everyone about how righteous you are and how you cant say this or that.