"We make a thing a little less easy for ourselves, to make it much easier for people whose identities are marginalized by society, to help pave the way for those identities to not be marginalized."

So true. I have to remind myself that what is slightly uncomfortable for me to say can possibly change the social temperature in the room. "They" or "she" can be difficult pronouns to adopt but when used, can make others in the room feel like they can relax a little and breathe. Thanks for always being introspective in your work!