#AIR-CLINIC HEALTH TALK: The Importance Of Eye Contact In Relationship and Life...
Hello Air-Clinicians $ Friends,
Today we are going to delve into the deep psychology in the eyes. Apart from being an organ of vision, the eye has a lot of functions when it comes to relationships.
A blind person can never understand this concept. But even he tries to move his head in the direction of speech.
The eyes is the window to the soul. As such, anyone who can look deeply into your eyes has access to your thoughts and feelings.
This is seen much more significantly in romantic relationships and love affairs. You ought to be able to look your lover in the eyes to look authentic.
At some other points, looking away could indicate interest in the opposite sex. This is seen most especially in ladies. When she's being talked to, she may become 'shy' and begin to look down. As well as playing with her clothes. (Story for another day)
Truth or lies are also in the eyes. Someone who's telling a lie in a given situation is much more likely to have shifty gaze. He or she darts the eye about and avoids eye contact.
Confidence level I another vital metric that can be given away by the eyes. Confident people tend to make me maintain eye contact in adding to standing tall and straight, talking and walking like they own the world and just being confidently disposed.
On the other hand, people with low self esteem is have some negative body languages. The same applies with depressed people. There are kinds of smiles that even shows up in your eyes. These set of people do not have that.
One other thing that many people don't notice is that the eyes actually help in your thoughts and thinking process. When you are trying to recall something the eyes respond appropriately by looking upwards and outwards. You know that gaze right? Yeah!
What does this apply to? Well, this knowledge is for all of us humans. Even animals have their own perculiar eye movement psychology that intrinsically applies to them.
The eyes is rich in details and meanings. Do not joke with it. Also having this knowledge helps you to be more sensitive and perceptive in your dealings with people.
That's why offline and online relationships differ alot. In online affairs, you don't get to look someone in the eyes and tell him/her that "you are lying!"
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Especially the detecting part when someone is telling lies. You can also detect when you dating a chronic liar through the eyes.
The eyes are like encrypted binary code that connects both parties of opposite sex.
Deep!
Short and precise. Quite educative. When i look straight into the other person's eye my confidence level rises.
Certainly the eye is the window of the soul. It is also like a camera 📷 that transmit impulses to the brain.
instruments of extreme quality, biological survival senses refined over billions of years of predator vs prey
Maintaining eye contact with someone while talking is very charming..most times u can easily tell when someone is lying by looking them in the eyes but also some are good are faking it
This is very true
Yeah, there are other clues to look out for, such as direction of palm, position of legs and chest.
Have you ever made someone uncomfortable with just your presence?
Mouth can tell lies, but body language do not. Looking into people's eyes radiate confidence and trust, though there are other clues to look out for too.
I recommend Psychology of Body Language and Gestures By Allen Pease. You can download the book via Thinkerspool Book Channel
Amazing topic !- the eyes. The eyes gives direction because literally even as it accepts the light, it tells the truth behind most things.
Thank you for sharing.
Lol...
The eye really helps connect
The eyes are really important ... The eye is an energiser or a morale giver ,for instance if you had to pierce your body to get blood for medical tests you find out that you most close your eyes to do it as if the strength to do it lies in the eyes. The first fear indicator is the eyes. Again the eyes also initiates fear.... When you have a lot to do and you are busy gazing at the work you end up not doing anything but when you will decide to do just little out of the work you will find out that the work is not as hard as it looks. You can intimidate some one with just looking at the person and in relationship where you are dating a tyrant you find out that it is difficult to say what you have in mind because the person is looking directly into your eyes.
The eyes is the Lord of the soul not just the window .
Well, I don't attach truth or lies to eye signals anymore.
I've seen cases where someone looks as honest as a dove yet is the most cunning you could imagine.
Trusting your guts and experience and inner spirit helps more than this one