you should never be prejudiced to people who have volunteered to spend time advising you
Feeling bad when advised is it good? Of course it's good, but it doesn't feel good to be wise. That is, being offended may be legitimate, but must be sensitive to immediate self-introspection.
Yes, be sensitive to the advice of others, do not get angry, let alone deteriorate clearly. Because they advised not because of hate, but unfortunately.
So you are lucky when making a mistake, or having a shortage there are still people who care to tell you, because it means they love you.
Therefore, be grateful if indeed there are still those who want to pay attention to your mistakes by taking the time to just advise you.
And be thankful when we make mistakes unconsciously, but there are others who remind them.
Because it means, how sad they are towards us, so we don't want to see us in a continuous error due to the shortcomings we have.
accept sincerely all the advice that comes from other people, because the advice certainly has good intentions for you.
Accept with full patience, and keep your heart from prioritizing the ego to feel blamed, if you don't want the heart that used to be normal you feel angry because you don't accept being blamed.
Know that good advice from someone else is a way so that we can easily review what we have done.
More precisely is self-introspection, because the advice is deliberately heard to us so that we can become better people.
So, you should never be prejudiced to people who have volunteered to spend time advising you.
Although sometimes the language they use sounds harsh, because after all the name of the advice will still bring goodness to you.