Own your sexual nature--Or else

in #advice6 years ago

I've seen it time and again. You meet a pretty girl, whether it be at school, work, or through mutual friends...you find her attractive and things are going great from the start. She may even indicate that she is interested in you, waiting for you to make the next move.

But you stall. You would like to take things to the next level, but you don't want to come across as a creep, weirdo, sexual predator, sa guy who is only interested in sex...all the bullshit the mainstream media has led you into believing that having sex and being sexual is a bad thing that you should be guilty and shameful of.

Unfortunately, this narrative has fucked things up pretty bad, for both men and women alike. Nowadays, men don't have the balls to let a women they like know that they are interested in her sexually, and women are growing impatient with men not owning up to their sexual feelings and moving things forward.

Nice Guy Syndrome

The nice guy syndrome describes a man who thinks that if he is overly nice and kind to a woman, he can win her heart over and engage in an intimate and romantic relationship with her.

The problem with this approach is that these men are afraid to own up to the fact that they are also highly sexual beings who like to have sex, for fear of being labeled as a creep, weirdo, or guy who's just trying to get laid.

The Result: These men get friend zoned time and time again because the women who friend zoned them don't even consider them as sexual-beings. They forget that these guys have cocks and want to fuck, because they have masked these truths so well by being so overly nice.

The Solution: Own up to the fact that you like to fuck, that you are a sexual being, as all human beings are, and that you enjoy sex. What this does is show the woman that you embrace your sexuality and are comfortable with expressing yourself sexually. In turn, she will feel comfortable to own up to her sexuality in front of you, and express herself sexually as well.

And what happens from there, well you do the Math ,)

This video does a great job at describing the above concept.

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