Student & Steem Comment Contest - Bullies

in Student & Steem5 days ago (edited)

Student Comment Contest


School started
Some students enjoy
Others are bullied, ignored
Are you a bully, what makes you act this way?
Do you notice who is ignored?
Teacher you look the other way too?


50-100-words comment


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Task


Write a comment about back to school, write an anecdote, add a photo or video and count your words.
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Back To School


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• Wordcount: 50-100

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• All Steemians are welcome!

• Invite someone new, no curators, moderators, and mentors

• Read at least 3 comments and talk + upvote
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• Hashtags - #student #comment #school

• Deadline: payout of this post



Prizes


5 Steem

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#1 | 2.5 Steem
#2 | 1.5 Steem
#3 | 1 Steem

Winners will be announced in the Comment Section

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Date: 19.9.2024

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I went to my university after vacation. I was confused about how my classmates would react. I went to the classroom. I saw friends talking with each other in groups. I went there and said, Salam. I saw there was no amusement or excitement on their faces as I saw them. They just smile and that's it. I felt very bad the very first day. I got to the last bench and my friend's seat was empty. As it was the first day so mostly teachers didn't come on the first days. I was alone waiting for the professor looking at the faces of people and thinking about how the students have groups. They were chatting gossiping hugging each other and I was alone sitting at the side. It is very difficult for a person to live alone in a place where they are all in groups.

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This is the picture I took in my class while sitting at the last.

Inviting @genomil @yacksylondon @stefano.massari to participate
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You said they smiled so smile back and do not go sit in the back! Why are you doing that?
Go sit in the front! They can leave if they like.

Also don't put your feet against the seat. Are painted nails and open shoes allowed?

Join/read/watch this one. Can you watch Korean Films? The Glory is very good!

https://steemitdev.com/hive-150487/@wakeupkitty.pal/deal-with-those-who-speak

Hola amiga, te entiendo perfectamente porque lo viví también, solo deja que pasé el tiempo y encontraras a un grupo con tus mismos afines... Claro está, si es el lugar el que realmente perteneces, porque hay veces que no pertenecemos allí y lo queremos forzar... Gracias por la invitación y buena escritura...

You only find the right people if you change and set boundaries. If not you will be bullied for life unless you grow a thick skin and are deaf, blind and without feelings.

 2 days ago 

Yes that is first day in school looks like, when you start a school it must take time before some particular type of people move with you and also it for you to monitor their behavior either good or bad, you are the one who can select the kind of people you need and also the kind of group you want.

Not always you can find the righteous after so much try. Some time you struggle yourself to find the people like you but you can't.

Did you read at all? These are classmates she knows for longer!

This has happened several times to me before. But even though it felt very uncomfortable, I understood that I can't control what people think about me. And I just try to be friendly with them. Just be yourself and don't let the experience change you. It could even be that they weren't thinking about you. They could be bothered about something else and not you.

 12 hours ago 

I believe after many years the experiences already changed her meaning how to change the tables? Any suggestions?

I don't understand what you mean. Could you clarify what you mean?

 10 hours ago 

You said: don't let the experience change you
I said: that the experiences already changed her.
Since this is the fact I ask you: Do you have any suggestions on how she can turn the tables meaning: how to stop being ignored and bullied.

If you let the experience of people ignoring you make you believe that you cannot be liked, you create that reality for yourself. You will soon that you see that reality everywhere you go because you believe it to be true. In the market, in the hall, in the studio, everywhere you go. It's not about what happened, it's about what you do after it has happened. Knowing that you can't control what others do to you, you can't bound yourself to the fear of what others will do or think. It's their task not yours.

I know it is difficult. Of course it's difficult to have a mindset shift but there's freedom in it. By treating everyone with respect, regardless of how they perceive you. Treating yourself too with respect and stop belittling yourself. If someone doesn't like you, that's fine. There are other people who'd appreciate you. Everybody has who they like and who hey don't like.

I'm not an expert when it comes to suggestions but I'd just say to stay respectful and continue your self-improvement.

Meet other people. There would be someone whom you could form non transactional and honest relationships with.

That's what I think. I don't know.

 9 hours ago 

Okay, let's pretend it is as you say but what if this isn't the case and you are beaten up for the past 6 years? Would you tell that on Steemit?

How to meet other people if you are only allowed to leave home to visit school and back?

It sounds to me you have a luxury life with all the freedom a person can have. Lucky you.

Again I ask: what to do if you are bullied for years? There must be a way out or do they all commit suicide or end up drugged in a mental imstitution?

Btw did you watch the Korean Film (2) The Glory?

This has to be the fifth time she arranged her hair. I was getting tired of this. If she wanted to lose herself by trying to please the prettiest girls in class then she can risk losing me as her friend. It's either me or them. Though it's been one month since those girls picked on her for talking to Dennis. Nora had always wanted to be like them. The cool kids. She had forgotten how they'd dragged her hair and hit her hard on the mirror. I watch her as she stands up. She has forgotten who she is.

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I invite @arafathsunny to join this comment contest. Goodluck 👍🏼

It sounds like a good story. I could say fiction but it's realistic. Sad but it is. The cool kids.. They are rarely cool just a bunch of pathetic idiots afraid thr Big Bully will pick at them.

I wonder what went wrong and how come there are so many without self-respect and self-esteem. Sounds as if that's not part of raising children. 🤔

It's a true story actually. Till today she tries to be cool. I hope one day she'll realise she doesn't have to prove herself to anyone.

Totally agree with you. It pains to be yourself but it's worth it. Because you'll feel free when you do so.

Isn't that the biggest struggle of most? The fight to by yourself and stop trying to prove yourself? The interesting thing is if it comes to that no matter how hard you try it will never be good enough. It's a lost case at forehand.

 5 days ago (edited)

Last Week's Student & Comment winners are:

5 Steem - sponsor prizes @wakeupkitty


#1 | 2.5 Steem - @eveetim

After every long vacation, resumption at school was usually a moment of fun and happiness because I'll get to meet with my friends again. During one of the resumptions after a long vacation, I resumed school but noticed one of my friends wasn't in school. She had no phone neither did I know her house address. How will I contact her to know about her whereabout?

#2 | 1.5 Steem - @hafsasaadat90

My school time was very old but my children's school time is in front of me. And I will share with you the experience of my children. My son who is now 15 years old was very scared on the first day when he was admitted to school. As soon as he reached his father's school, he started resisting going back.

#3 | 1 Steem - @shahid76

When I remember school, I remember the golden days. School days were wonderful moments. Chatting for hours with schoolmates, quarreling with them about small things, running away from school in groups to play in the playground, looking into the teacher's fiery eyes. Everything. Was wonderful the joy.


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Wow. are you guys bullying me right now? How interesting it is that there's not even a thank you after prizes being paid.

Is this what they call "let's grow together"?

@mercybliss @nurazizahh @oniza12 @yeniza what do you think?

how about joining this one too @bluelavender?

Sounds like a good idea. Thanks 😊

 12 hours ago 

We, well not we have a problem right now and that is that it's hard to sign in to Steemit. No it's not due to your wifi (nor mine) but it has to do with (? ).
If you use a mobile phone know that the SteemPro (SteemMobile) frequently does work in the cases Steemit has problems.

I guess it might be quiet this week.
@sbamsoneu @saintkelvin17 and @drhira if you are bored come and chat with the students - or yourself if no one shows up.
Did you guys find the bullies?

We are not bored but server has great problem it almost did not work moreover I am just say the task is lengty as the server is in bad working otherwise I love to participate.

 10 hours ago 

I know it's the same here with the server. It's since last Friday and I tried 3 days and nights in a row, kind of frustrating also because no one knows what the reason is.
I asked for a longer deadline and also a later date of the report since the report should be on Monday and no way we can make that if everything has to be read and checked. A bit of private life being left would be nice since I don't get paid to be here 24/7.

Just take your time and do what you can. The first task is not too difficult. Write a crime story of 550 words and use the words mentioned by @freewritehouse. Write offline and if you can log in you can post.

I noticed comments I posted yesterday didn't show in the evening to the help of SteemMobile app wasn't helpful either.

Good luck and happy writing.

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