If it's an adult's choice, then it's none of my business what they decide to do with their lives. If it's stemming from childhood abuse, which is not the case all the time, then it's a mental health issue, and also, none of my business unless there's something I can do to help those individuals. Once you're an adult, you can't blame childhood trauma for everything. You then are capable of making your own choices. Whether good or bad, its their choice. I suffered horribly at the hands of my own father, yet I lead a perfectly normal life with my husband. Because I've made my own choices. Had I continued living in my childhood, I would be in some trouble, no doubt. I don't know if you're trolling or serious, but I'm curious as to why you feel so strongly about this if you're serious.