Contest: Singles Day!, My experience, Pakistan

Assalam u Alaikum,

Every time I find a new topic to share on Steemit. Which fills me with excitement and enthusiasm and I am ready to write about it with great joy. This time, the topic of single person is a new topic. I have not written about it anywhere yet. Now writing on this topic is a new experience.

Every person is single before their marriage. Whether it is a boy or a girl. And he has a different life. Some people's life is very beautiful before marriage. And some people's life is beautiful after marriage.
It is said that

Marriage is such a sweet that even those who have eaten it regret it, and those who have not eaten it also regret it. Therefore, my opinion is that when you have to regret it, you should regret it by eating it.

My self before and after marriage

I was very angry and passionate before marriage. I used to get angry easily, but I also got angry quickly. I did everything with hard work and dedication. But I had no interest in studies. I loved doing housework. Cooking and gain education were two things that I disliked very much.
If you look at it, single life has its own unique pleasure. There are no responsibilities on us. There are no fixed times for us to sleep and wake up. Except during school days. Nor do we have to get up even when we are sick to do housework. We do housework whenever we want, sleep whenever we want, eat whenever we want. After marriage, a fixed routine starts. And we have to listen to the opinions and words of others. Whether a person is healthy or not, he has to stand up for his family. He has to work for his children. Whereas in single life, all these problems do not occur. Before marriage, our parents wake up in our illness and pain. While after marriage, we ourselves wake up to the illness and suffering of our children.

##Bad effect of single

But being single is not for everyone. Especially for girls. Because there comes a time in life, in youth, when every girl is looking for her life partner. And she wants someone to love her. And someone to love her. And it is better if he is her husband. Otherwise, girls also try to follow the wrong path. And they make wrong relationships. Which are harmful for themselves. And this also spreads unrest in the society. A single boy or girl cannot be happy with herself alone. Unless there is someone else with her. Either she spends time with her friends, or she likes to spend time with her family. But sexually, her hormones pull her towards the opposite sex. And this is a natural aspect. Therefore, to stay single, we should not ignore this aspect of ourselves. Because this is a natural desire and requirement, which is present in every human being. While there are many advantages to being single, there are also disadvantages. A person is not respected in the eyes of society. Compared to married life. A person who is married is given a reliable relationship by society. Whereas the value of a single boy or girl is very low in the eyes of society. And people do not like single boys and girls. In our society, when a girl turns 20 to 25 years old, it is the best time to get married. And if she does not get married during this time, then the identity of that girl becomes a question mark. Why has she not gotten married yet? Is there something wrong with the girl? Or is there a problem in her family? That is why she is not getting married. Similarly, there is a certain age limit for boys. Boys between the ages of 30 and 35 are considered good for marriage. Whereas if a boy crosses the age of 35, then his identity also becomes a question mark. And everyone questions him only about his marriage.

I write my thinking about singles. If you agree plz comment.
Thank alot for open my post🙂

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