Left Out
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But I felt left out.
They play jokes,
And let me kick out.
Seems they don't like me.
I am fed up.
This is right that some people make us feel that we are still lonely when we are sitting between them. I have seen many cases as I'm sitting in the university and saw the group in which one is talking and everyone is ignoring that person. One is asking something and no one responds to the other person. I hope that one should not sit at a table where people don't respect that person. They don't deserve you. If I share my experience then I make a group having three friends and two other friends came to our group and started teasing me, joking and make fun of me. I stood up from the table and left that place.
Now when I see that some other people are experiencing from same things they are teased by everyone and making them feel left out. I wish to tell them to leave that place.
Some are afraid of losing people some think about what we do if the people are not around us. What will happen to us? They fear being lonely that's why they are among the selfish and hypocritical people.
I think that you should leave the place it is better than being lonely rather than feeling left out by sitting among them.
Remember if we don't respect ourselves others will not respect us. Don't allow others to feel you are inferior to them no matter how the situations are against you.
Fight for yourself. If you love yourself everyone will love you back.
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@dexsyluz @cryptopie @mikitaly
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I completely understand how you feel.
Unfortunately, everyone goes through situations like this, especially when they are young.
It's frustrating when it's your own friends who create situations that make you uncomfortable.
You did the right thing by leaving, no one deserves to be treated like that.
As you said, respecting yourself is the first step to making others respect you.
We need to stay away from people who make us doubt ourself.
Just be patient and look around carefully to find those who truly appreciate and respect us.
It is true that some people feel pathetic while leaving that place where they have no respect.Exactly we should be nice to everyone. If we respect others and left the place without quarrel that would be mature action. Some people fight and yell at each other and what's the end they left. So why don't we left without mess.
When we saw a person sitting alone we began to talk awww he or she is sitting alone. We began to assume things that is actually weird. We always judge the book by its cover that's sad fact.
We should try to understand. Every person has his own story. Not everyone born to be strict. Not everyone want to be alone. Even the strict people has their own stories that lead them to that point. What you think about this?.
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@jiya99 greetings
Dear friend I just love your post because you have shed a meaningful thing with us that is really very important to know for everyone because when we are not giving respect to ourself how other can give us respect.
As you share your experience your University and a group of people was talking while otherwise ignoring then how we can expect self respect from other peoples when we are talking.
I would have questions my feelingscare somewhat different I sometimes didn't ignore others while sitting together while others do it how I can overcome these feelings.
Overall you have shared a moral and meaningful post although it contains only few lines but having much description inside it.
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I find it a bit hard to understand what you mean to say. Are you ignored or bullied at school? I do agree that if you have no self-respect no one will respect you. I noticed that always the same type of people are picked on and usually these are the kind-hearted ones. A friend once told me: You should always walk straight up and your arms a bit wider from your body. If you stand, walk, and sit like this you take your rightful place. I suggest you and @jiya99 both try this. You will see it will make a world of difference.
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Thank you so much for kind suggestion i guess it would be really helpful for me.
There is a huge difference between being alone and lonesome. The worst is being surrounded by many and feeling miserable because you are not accepted or ignored. For sure many can rely to that but I keep wondering how come if that is the case and also many complain they need a friend there's no way to realize this. I like the picture... I believe my children would say the same as you just did although with us it will easier happen at primary school and highschool (the lower levels) than university.