My Explanation About Women's Emancipation
I respect women like I respect my own mother. In this era of emancipation, there are some women who express their opinions, or make the first move. In terms of love, for example, to a man they like, if they really like him, they say emancipation.
As for me, my opinion as a lay person in terms of the emancipation of love and women. You as a woman must be elegant, must know how to position yourself. Usually women are chased, it is impossible to chase. Women must tend to maintain their nature, as a woman, respected, appreciated, loved. It is better to highlight their achievements as emancipation, not because of chasing them. Don't sell it cheap, women must be docile.
Okay, is it normal or not for women to make the first move? I think it's okay, as long as you don't get pregnant first. But, because I am someone who admires women, someone who respects women. I prefer it if the man is the one who declares it first, it has to be the man first. I prefer to fight to get the woman I love.
I learned this from the advice of my love teacher. My love teacher is Sundanese, so I can explain this in Sundanese, from the meaning it is clear, men and women in Sundanese. The man is called pameget. Are there any Sundanese people here, do you understand? So, the man is called pameget. That is actually from English, pameget is from, Pay me get. Let me pay for anything, until I get you, I will fight for anything, sacrifice anything, until I get you.
Now we move on to women. In Sundanese, women are wives. The wife here is not the opposite of the husband, the wife here is the opposite of pameget. Wife is an English translation, wife is a tree "Is try", so the woman is just quiet like a tree, wait for us men to plant you, fertilize you, pick you, in a good sense of course here. In Sundanese too, a woman is the opposite of a jalu, which is bikang, meaning let the brother fight to get you.
As I said earlier, if I respect women, I always treat women special. So when we're walking, buying snacks, shopping, let me, the man, pay. Because for me, achievement is everything, men are happy when they feel needed. We men don't expect, if next time the woman pays, no! Just say thank you, and if you don't mind, praise us, that's all. Praise us, and be proud of us in front of others, simple right?
Actually, I'm not a materialistic man, I don't want money or anything. But I want to show, do you know according to a study of men and women, that's the difference, women say up to 20,0000 words a day.
While we men, only 7,000, on average right? I want to show who is the man here. What is clear, the one who talks a lot may think, he is a man, but the nature he uses is a woman.
Talking about women's emancipation, it's because of each person's ego. So, don't make a problem, for example me, I never forbid, a woman who is walking with me, eating together, I don't forbid her to pay. And I also hope she doesn't ask me to pay. So it has nothing to do with who pays and self-esteem, the one who is paid, is the one who has no self-esteem.
So for example, I used to approach a woman, I never wanted her to pay, because if I accepted her to pay, then my self-esteem as a man would be destroyed.
Okay, indeed if the name of the woman has tried with us. If indeed she keeps trying, but we do not give anything in return, it is also a pity. Especially if we have feelings for her, she will never know our feelings, if we do not allow it, express it too. Sometimes if she is loved, she wants to do anything, for her target, right?
So women are vulnerable to being victims, it does not mean men are like that. My principle is to treat women, as you want, as you want, how your father treats your mother, how your future son-in-law treats your daughter, and your future brother-in-law, treats your older sister, like that.
So it's like this, for women you don't need to be afraid, actually men and women are born with different characters and basic natures. In early communication in their love, they are already different innately. Usually this is it, men approach women 98% with a motive or mode, wanting to help or assist. While women approach men, the mode is usually asking for help
That shows that the basic nature is different, so you have to be careful, because that is indeed the character. If you often ask for help, ask for help, it means you have a female character. If you are willing, happy to help, happy to help, it means your character is male, so that's the point. Once again in a romantic relationship, there is no one who must come first, who must come later.
Maybe we are creatures who like to trigger conflict, and in matters of love, if you want one, then don't take two, because one completes, but two eliminates. We all know the weight of justice, and understand the difficulty of being fair in love, in the word FAITHFUL, there is the word IA, if more than one, then it will be IN VAIN. It is better to be loved, more noble, respected, than just being in demand.
That's my post tonight, hopefully there are benefits that can be obtained.
Greetings always compact.
By @midiagam