My Freewriters # 9: The balance between love and discipline of children.

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Mothers and Fathers, creating discipline does not mean violence, do not treat your children severely, forgetting their childhood and the fact that they are only children, when we have children it is important to assume that they will not become perfect immediately and that they are children should not demand they act like adults.

Parents must not forget their childhood years, and they must not forget how passionately they longed for sympathy and love, how miserable they felt when adults scolded and punished them in a fit of irritation. It is this that I invite you to revive the feelings of your children in the soul and descend to the level of children's thinking to understand the needs of children.

Children need kind and encouraging words, saying sincere and sweet words that light a ray of sunshine in the hearts of babies and help them forget all the problems, it is really very easy, it is just about saying it with love.

Parents, love your children: love them in their childhood, love them in their adolescence, love them in their youth and all their lives. If we love and treat it with love, I assure you that we can help children to be winners in their future.

I assure you that if we cultivate an environment of love, they will be good children and we will be able to overcome their stubbornness and rebellion. You should always make it clear to your children that you love and work for them, that their happiness is dear to you, and that you intend to do only what is good for them. You can meet your little needs as long as you find it acceptable.

When communicating with children, never act under the influence of an impulse. Let authority and affection fit together. Protect and promote all that is good and attractive in your children. When you deny them anything that might harm them, try to let them know that you love them and that you just want to make them happy.

The less attractive the child is, the more it is necessary to show affection and love. When the child is sure that you want to make him happy, love will destroy all the barriers between you. This principle was guided by Christ, communicating with people, we must follow this principle.

Many families do not express family feelings for each other, and it is not about sentimentality, it is that everyone needs expressions of love and tenderness: small courtesies, sincere words, careful attention.

For example, attachment should always be maintained between husband and wife, parents and children, brothers and sisters. It is much better to be nice to others, to speak kindly. Avoid reckless words, and never express yourself as someone disliking the other.

The love shown by parents, sincerely caring for children and raising them appropriately, weakly reflects God's love for us.

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