Shameless Seems Like a Good Thing

The English word ‘shame’ goes back to Middle English and late Old North French, shame being an emotion that has been around for millennia and in all likelihood predating civilization. Anger may be seen as a normal response to feelings of embarrassment, rejection or rejection. However, there are some people that highly probably do not experience this feeling and are very thick skinned to the extent of progressing in life without considering the feeling. It is for these shameless people to be congratulated for being bold or aggressive, to be demanding, is this the right thing?

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Thoughts that Make You Go Soft: The Benefits of Shamelessness

While it is undeniable that shamelessness can have its perks for the people who have it. For instance, compared to the rest of the population these individuals may be in a position to state clearly what they want in a romantic relationship and go out for it. Thick skin is plausible for one to acquire in a sales environment; this means many people tend to become successful in the sale’s closure, making the overall success rate high.

Secondly, shamelessness can also be very useful in bettering one’s career by far. Some employees think that success consists in ignorance of other people’s actions and adaptation to the basic conditions to achieve the set goals. In many instances, shamelessness can act as a motivation to achieve that long-awaited promotion, or win the coveted job.

But more importantly, they can be more assertive and get more into risks, so long as they don't have to suffer the pain of shame. It can make possible very real new realms of discovery and make possible solutions that could change the way we do almost everything, fundamentally.

The Disadvantages of Shamelessness

Yet it has its own demerits that are obvious as well. First of all, the shameful people may forget that society appreciates such values as modesty and temperance. While assertive and confident the individual may become overbearing or aggressive, this is not healthy because the mannerisms may be perceived as boastful, arrogant, or even narcissistic by other people.

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Further, shamelessness can turn out to be advantageous as well as disadvantageous. As much as it about bringing fulfilment to a person’s dreams, it can also make the person act in an unethical or even Illegal manner that is wrong but was done in the achievement of the set goal. Some might know what they're putting into action, but the shameless will be unbothered.

Still, one can be full of shamelessness which can hinder a person’s personal development and emotional growth. If one cannot feel shame, then for example, he cannot learn anything from the mistakes made by him or improve himself. It may also lead to a poor ability to relate to the feelings and experiences of others as well as impressions and feelings of others.

Finding the Middle Ground

It may well be that with more study, the researchers themselves might discover that what requires moderation is shamelessness itself. For one to be sure and speak and act boldly, it does not necessarily mean the person should be rude or subordinate to fellow human beings. Thus, shameless people may also need to know how their actions affect others and thus use their impenetrable skin and not offend anyone’s rights while enacting shamelessness.

Also, shameless individuals still have the confidence and self-direction to pursue those which are beneficial towards self and the greater populace. Consequently, it becomes possible to make a positive change in the world and be himself at the same time and it is not matter of principles but of interest.

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All in all, shamelessness can be a way of going, which in most cases can be useful for the practitioner with regard to confidence, assertiveness, and courage. But there is still moderation has to be exercised because once we are desirous of becoming too self reliant, there has to be caution not to become a nuisance either to ourselves or to other people. And lastly, we were told that means of accomplishing a good life was the finding of a sweet spot between the shameless enough to live life and do anything towards it and bold enough to endanger something for it, and also the humble and wise enough to comprehend and handle human relations and feelings.


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