We Are Shaped By It III, Contributed By @Olawalium
… continued… from part 1 and part 2
She visited the boyfriend’s apartment one day and he requested for his special meal. She obliged him and cooked it. When she was done cooking the food, the guy ate it and she left the house. On getting to her house, the guy called and asked what she added in his food because he is seriously purging and having stomach upset. She was dumbfounded at the supposed attack and lack of trust. She was shocked, to say the least.
The moment he dropped the call, he called his mother and the mother went to his house to get him to the hospital. At the hospital, the mother called this girl and started threatening her. She called her all sort of names and even threatened to wipe away her family if anything ever happened to her son. She called her a gold digger who wanted to kill the guy because of money; obviously, the guy has told the mother how his ATM card was with this girl.
She couldn’t stop the tears but all she could do was pray to God to preserve the life of the guy because she did nothing to him. The test results came out and it was not poison. It has nothing to do with what he ate. He was treated and he went home. On getting to his apartment, he called this girl and she went to his house. She dropped the ATM card as well as the house key and left. He thought she was taking it too far but she had to leave this guy because when trust is broken, it is very hard to build back.
The mother called her too and apologized but she was determined never to have anything to do with that family again and sincerely, I support that stand. The father got wind of it that the girl has stopped coming and the younger sister to that guy explained everything the mother did to that girl and the father called that girl. The father thanked her for her love and support and also praised her. The father said he would have picked a bigger fight with her if she ever wanted to date his son after everything the mother and even the boy did. He offered an olive branch to her that she is free to call him anytime and he supports her decision to stay away from such a toxic atmosphere.
…to be continued…
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Hmmm, the guy's problem is not about handling money alone, he's not mature as well. I don't expect him to tell his mother about the ATM stuff, but he did to show how immature he is.
Well, that's not the case, such a genuine heart should not be given to such an immature person he's claimed to be.
The father and the siblings are the only mature adults in that family line.... Smiles
Hahahahahaha, I love the line you used there;
That perfectly sums it up. Relationships are not for babies. Age is never a true reflection of maturity and the guy has proved to be immature as you have rightly said. When a man cannot think on his own, he is not fit to take another person into his life.
Thanks a lot for this lovely contribution.
I hadn't even gotten here before i had this feeling something was gonna go off.
Now to me the young man has complex issues:
i: Mentally ii: Emotionally
I always say this; third party is a big challenge in relationship no matter who the person is worst still in this case, His mother.
Apology is good but what happens to the breach of trust?
Apology is good but how do you handle the preoccupied mindset already had about you? Apology is good, but how do you handle the impression about you outside? I really feel for this lady but thank God for Friend she had in the guy's father.
I have come to realise that a major problem we have is Sympathetic approach to lots of issues from people we take in high esteem but thank God this guy's father isn't such a kinda Parent.
"We are shaped by it" the guy's mother is a very bad porter here
This is amazing. The mother is a very terrible porter as she has moulded a terrible edifice with her myopic way of thinking. The issue is, mothers like this would never accept the same thing they are dishing out.
A lot is wrong with the guy and also the mother. Once you have crossed that life of trust, it takes way too long to build back but obviously, he doesn't even look like he is willing to go through the pain of building it up, especially with that woman in his life.
I totally enjoyed your comment. Thanks a lot.
The point here is that the trust cannot be rebuild. The girl has nothing to do with his money all she wants love for him. But they all took her as wrong.
There are still people exist that are sincere to relations.
Wonderful Mr. @olawalium.
Yes, my friend. We still have people that are actually sincere to their relationship. All she wants is love and acceptance but they took it all wrong. She tried to make him better because she believes in adding value in relationships. A lot ladies these days just want to receive and they don't know they are expected to be a value adder too.
Thank you.